tools/cmake: update to 3.17.0

Remove libressl patches; they are no longer needed as LibreSSl adde
support

Replace qt tests patch with one that disables all of them.

Refresh remaining one.

Signed-off-by: Rosen Penev <rosenp@gmail.com>

tools/cmake/patches/130-bootstrap_parallel_make_flag.patch

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 --- a/bootstrap
 +++ b/bootstrap
-@@ -1248,7 +1248,10 @@ int main(){ printf("1%c", (char)0x0a); r
+@@ -1283,7 +1283,10 @@ int main(){ printf("1%c", (char)0x0a); r
  ' > "test.c"
  cmake_original_make_flags="${cmake_make_flags}"
  if [ "x${cmake_parallel_make}" != "x" ]; then